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Hi.
My name is Jonathan Chamberlain.
Hi. My name is Jonathan Chamberlain. Look at
this photo. Bernadette and I had a lot of fun trying to cycle this weird
contraption along an empty road in China. What a happy time we had that
day! It is to the memory of Bernadette that I dedicated my book `Fighting
Cancer - A Survival Guide' - (this was the original title of the book
which I now call Cancer: The Complete Recovery
Guide) I wrote this book because Bernadette was diagnosed
with cervical cancer in 1993. She underwent surgical investigation, radiation
and chemotherapy and was dead exactly a year later. Looking back, if I
were to summarize my experience I would say the biggest mistake we made
was to do what the doctors advised. Bernadette could not have died sooner
if we had done nothing.
There is no doubt that she died as much from
the treatment as from the cancer itself. In addition, that year - the
year of her illness - caused us a great deal of seemingly unavoidable,
painful relationship difficulties as we responded to her illness in very
different ways. Yet, how could we have avoided these difficulties? If
only we had had a book that could lead us through the whole field from
an intelligent unideological point of view. I read over 150 books and
could not find the book I was looking for. Most of the books were selling
single cures. Others talked about a range of alternative cures but gave
no rationale for choosing this route over the orthodox route. Many others
vilified anyone who suggested anything other than surgery, radiation and
chemotherapy...What was the truth? And even when Bernadette died I was
still faced with the questions: What will I do if I get cancer? What will
I do if Patrick, my son, gets cancer? I could see that if I didn't keep
on looking for answers - and above all for a framework in which I could
make a decision - I would be destined to repeat the folly and suffering
that marked Bernadette's last year. So I wrote this book partly as therapy
and partly as a means of arriving at an answer for
myself - an answer that I could share with friends - an answer that would
lessen the suffering of mankind. I owe that much to Bernadette for the
suffering she went through. It must not be in vain!
Cancer: The Complete
Recovery Guide is the book I wish I had been able to share
with Bernadette. It's the book I hope you will let me share with you.
It is not emotional, it is not a diatribe, it is not angry. It is thoughtful,
concerned, alarmed. But while this book (The Big Book) suits my need to
know everything, I realize that other people need to have information
provided in a more easily digestible form. For that reason. I wrote The
Little Book - otherwise known as Cancer
Recovery Guide: 15 Alternative and Complementary Strategies for Restoring
Health.
Who am I when I'm not writing about cancer?
I am an English teacher who gradually moved into writing textbooks for
secondary school students in Hong Kong. I have also written two short
books on Chinese folk religion - `Chinese Gods' - an exploration of the
major deities of the Chinese folk pantheon and the system of belief that
underlies this - and The Cheung Chau Bun Festival. (Cheung Chau is the
island I live on in Hong Kong and every year round about May there is
a three day festival - which is a wonderful experience of colours and
sounds. The purpose of the festival is to feed the hungry ghosts for another
year so that they won't plague the island.)
My book King Hui: The
Man Who Owned All The Opium in Hong Kong (published 2007)
is a true story about a Chinese gambler, playboy, kungfu fighter, associate
of triads, collaborator with the Japanese, would-be criminal mastermind,
political prisoner, CIA agent and more. This is the bizarre story of a
'joyful' man who was drawn irresistibly to folly.
STEVIE
& My Charity Involvements
Apart from my writing, I am involved with two charities that I founded:
The Hong Kong Down Syndrome Association and Mental Handicap Network China.
These are dedicated to the short, seemingly tragic, but ultimately transforming
life of my daughter Stevie Stevie was born with Down Syndrome. As a result
of a hole in the heart she had an operation. Something went wrong. She
suffered an oxygen shortage that caused brain damage leaving her blind,
epileptic and so profoundly handicapped that she could not sit or roll
over. Yet she was, when she recovered from the trauma of the operation
and the seizures were brought under control, a happy girl, a girl who
centred us and made us understand the power of love. Quite simply, she
changed our lives. She taught me about pain and about fighting back stubbornly.
I have written a book about my life with Stevie and Bernadette, Wordjazz
for Stevie,
The Hong Kong Down Syndrome Association is now a
successful non-profit organisation with over 1,000 members that is very
active in supporting parents of children with Down Syndrome in Hong Kong.
Out of this experience, another - grander - idea grew: a charity that
would help the whole of China develop services for its estimated 30 million
mentally handicapped for whom nothing - or nothing much - is currently
available. This work is moving forward slowly.
My life now:
When I'm not writing books, I like to spend time
hanging around with Patrick. In the past he didn't mind hanging out with
me (see picture) But now that he's a teenager, shortly heading off to
university, he's not so keen!
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